Siue taceas, dilectione taceas; siue clames, dilectione clames; siue emendes, dilectione emendes; siue parcas, dilectione parcas.
If you are silent, be silent because of love; if you shout, shout because of love; if you correct, correct because of love; if you spare, spare because of love.
Augustine of Hippo – known as Aurelius Augustinus, early Christian theologian and philosopher, one of the four Latin Doctor of Church (354-430), from his sermons to the first letter of Johan (“In epistulam Iohannis ad Parthos sermones decem”, 7,8)